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Pre-Marital Couples

Welcome to Madly in Love Forever’s program for Pre-Marital Couples.

Congratulations! You have taken a powerful step by being conscious and intentional in your desire to assess whether your current pre-committed relationship has potential to become a successful and long-lasting life partnership. This program will help you achieve a greater understanding of what is required for you to have a happy and fulfilling committed partnership.

The Partners in Life program is only offered by professional Relationship Coaches who are trained and licensed by the Relationship Coaching Institute.

1. About this Program

a. Purpose

The purpose of this program is to help a pre-marital couple improve their likelihood of having a successful marriage by:

  • Acquiring a deeper understanding of yourself and each other.
  • Co-creating a shared vision for your life together.
  • Clarifying your commitment to your relationship and your partner.
  • Learning new relationship skills that will help to open communication, provide a process for managing differences, and resolving conflicts.

b. Program Goals

This program will help you:

  • Get clarity about yourself, your partner, and your relationship.
  • Learn skills, tools and concepts necessary  for the long-term success of your love relationship.
  • Become empowered to consciously commit to this relationship if it is in alignment with your individual vision, requirements and needs.
  • Increase the likelihood of long-term relationship success and decrease the likelihood of failure.

c. Program Structure:

The program begins with a 90 minute intake session, followed by six 90 minute coaching sessions. Expect at least 60 to 90 minutes of homework per week which includes reading assignments and the completion of assigned exercises and practice.

Additional coaching sessions may be added for individual and/or couples coaching, as desired.

d. Our Role as Coach:

As professional RCI Relationship Coaches, Diane and Lewis:

  • Are non-judgmental and neutral about the outcome of you relationship- we are not an advocate for the relationship, but are advocates for each partner. helping you to become clear about who you are and what you want first, then help you determine whether this relationship is a good fit.
  • Facilitates learning about self, your partner, and the relationship.
  • Empower the partners to tell their truth, no matter how challenging.
  • Teach and coach relationship skills.
  • Help the partners move into action that is in alignment with their goals.

f. Your Role as Client:

  • Use the program to identify and make good long-term relationship choices that are in alignment with your needs and life goals.
  • Prioritize long-term success over short-term discomfort.
  • Are open to learning about, self, your partner, and the relationship.
  • Apply the program learning to your life and love relationship.

g. Important Program Notes:

Homework is assigned between sessions and your completion of this work is critical to achieving the maximum benefit from the program Allow at least an hour and a half per week for homework.

If desired, additional coaching is available to learn and practice relationship skills, address relationship challenges, and implement the tools and processes in this program.

Bring or refer to your workbook for each session for taking notes for in-session exercises.

In the course of this program it may be possible that you may question the long-term viability of being together. This is a good outcome!  You can’t really say “yes” to your relationship until you are able to say “no” to it. In other words, you can’t get what you really want until you are able to say “no” to what you don’t want.

Your best long-term relationship insurance will come from being conscious and asking yourself and each other the hard questions before making a final commitment to your relationship. You are in love, and much of your decision -making is a result of the strong romantic feelings you have for one another. However, the best long-term choices will be made by balancing your hear with your head. Your courage in engaging this process will greatly help to prevent the possibility of future divorce and enhance the success of your committed relationship.